Monday, July 20, 2009

...what healed my heart in 2007...

Every relationship is an experiment, and you never know exactly what you'll get.
Some people bring out a side of you that you didn't know you had.
Some people remind you that your story isn't over.
Some people surprise you.
And once in a while, you surprise yourself.
And, although all relationships require compromise, sometimes you get more, not less.

And sometimes, you can't get more. Sometimes what you had is gone forever. And, although it's painful, you have to find the strength to go on, to keep searching for the love, for that one perfect ingredient.

In 2007 a boy broke my heart for the very first time. Did some serious damage too.
And after months of trying to figure out what I did wrong and daydreaming about him realizing what a horrible mistake he made… I finally came to grip with reality and a romantic comedy helped heal my broken heart.

Link to a few scenes from The Holiday


  1. the holiday is one of my ABSOLUTE favourite movies, and i'm not even a romantic-comedy person. what they say is to true! and still i find myself playing kate winslet's character every time =P

  2. I agree...comedy certainly helps to heal a broken heart. Cheers to that!

  3. Sometimes when something tragic like that happens in our life it may mean that we're destined for better things. And i believe that you deserve a much better love from a much better person. So no need to brood over it for too long, just wise up & pick up the pieces and move on with your life.

    BTW i love that movie too and have one coffee on me ya.